big deal she pays no tax or pay for using the living room as a business place . in this case how do i report her? for her illegal business and uncomfortable life? pls respond.My former roommate is braiding hair as business in the apartment it annoyes me alot but she want to prof is no?
What you need to do is chill out a little. This is frustrating for both of you - for you, because she's taking your personal space and making it public, among other things, and for her because of your nagging. What you need to do is sit down calmly with her. Be reasonable. Don't accuse her of anything. Don't yell or become offensive. Tell her that you understand her situation and you would like to make an arrangement that can suit both of you. Set a time frame - about 2 to 4 hours long, perhaps (depending on her amount of business) - during which she can bring people to the room to braid their hair. Ask her if she could get people to make an ';appointment'; during this time frame, or if they need it immediately, if she could call you first. During this time frame, you can go out to the bookstore, study, see a movie, whatever. Just get out for a while, and when her time frame is up, come back. This will make it way easier for both of you to live. She needs money. You need space. And neither of you wants to sacrifice.
I know this isn't the revenge you had in mind, but if you can go about this conversation calmly without accusing her of anything, it will make things so much easier for both of you. And if she begins to get on the offensive or get angry, it is essential that you stay calm. Listen to her side of the argument entirely before you give your response - it is essential that you be tactful, because there's no way you'll get your way if you are unpleasant. Make her feel that her opinion does matter, and you want to make this work for both of you. Good luck.
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